I can say as one who's been thin and overweight, sexiness is in the eye of the beholder. I was thin when I married my ex husband but after two kids and an obsession with food, I packed on some serious poundage. Even so, he too would get a hard on just from looking at me. I, on the other hand, felt horrible and could not fathom why he'd even want to look at me, let alone have sex. *shrugs*
Luckily people are very individual and we'll never fully understand what makes anyone tick. I'm bigger then I've ever been yet this guy in my life would do me 5 times a day if I'd let him. I dunno. What I find sad is there are so many people out there with hearts of gold who get overlooked because the packaging isn't quite so attractive. But then, you can't love what you're not attracted to on some level. Hm.
Let me give this a shot....chasemiceDecember 27 2005, 22:04:17 UTC
The viewing of the boob is a means to an end. Like that Pavlov's thing with the bell and dog. Your nipple is the bell and he salivates, hehe. The reward is the pleasure during the sex act and the release it provides. Well, that is how I see it.
Be thankful that he feels that way! It sure beats hell out of a marriage without it. Trust me on this.
Beauty is indeed in the eye of the beholder. There are plenty of BBW sites online that flourish. A lot of men like to have more to hold onto as well. I'm with you on that front. I don't find skinny or overly-muscular men (6-packs! YUCK!) attractive at all, but that's just my thang.
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I can say as one who's been thin and overweight, sexiness is in the eye of the beholder. I was thin when I married my ex husband but after two kids and an obsession with food, I packed on some serious poundage. Even so, he too would get a hard on just from looking at me. I, on the other hand, felt horrible and could not fathom why he'd even want to look at me, let alone have sex. *shrugs*
Luckily people are very individual and we'll never fully understand what makes anyone tick. I'm bigger then I've ever been yet this guy in my life would do me 5 times a day if I'd let him. I dunno. What I find sad is there are so many people out there with hearts of gold who get overlooked because the packaging isn't quite so attractive. But then, you can't love what you're not attracted to on some level. Hm.
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Beauty is indeed in the eye of the beholder. There are plenty of BBW sites online that flourish. A lot of men like to have more to hold onto as well. I'm with you on that front. I don't find skinny or overly-muscular men (6-packs! YUCK!) attractive at all, but that's just my thang.
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I'm glad to hear that you are still attractive to one another (I assume he is attractive to you as well, but in a different way).
Hope your holiday was nice.
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