Comments | hotrod5667: Can't sleep....

hotrod5667

Can't sleep....

Dec 24, 2005 06:20

So I woke up about 20 mins ago and I can't get back to sleep. Thoughts just keep creeping through my head. Thoughts about how unfair I feel relationships have or haven't treated me. It's just I see so many friends who've been hurt by a single particular person continously going back to them. Amanda, Kelly and Lindsey even, to name a few. Each ( Read more... )

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gatorgal December 24 2005, 15:18:31 UTC

"I guess girls really do like the jerks."

This is not true. I think the girls that go back to those guys are going back for the comfortable feeling. Many girls are so ready to give guys a second chance. Especially if it means gaining the the comfort of a relationship again. But please don't say that girls like jerks.

hotrod5667 December 24 2005, 15:37:19 UTC

It's just I feel like I'm one of the 'good' guys who actually deserves a second chance but never get it, while they do. I just want to know what's up with that.

gatorgal December 24 2005, 16:37:03 UTC

There's a lot of things I could tell you, but livejournal probably isn't the place...I dunno thouhg, girls want guys to win them back...

thejoysofjess December 24 2005, 17:31:54 UTC

http://www.heartless-bitches.com/rants/niceguys/niceguys.shtml

You know, I'm thinking that describes you pretty well. I'm not saying this in a mean way, I'm just saying that reading that article reminds me of you. "But why would they leave me for a baaaaaaad guy when I'm so niiiiiiiiiice?" I really think you should read it and take it to heart.

hotrod5667 December 25 2005, 15:27:45 UTC

Ouch...

thejoysofjess December 25 2005, 16:58:21 UTC

Honestly, like I said, I didn't mean it to be mean or hurtful. I just think that you put a lot of pressure on yourself to have a great and perfect relationship and I think that is what inevitably kills them.

hotrod5667 December 25 2005, 17:30:06 UTC

Prolly right.

anonymous December 25 2005, 01:07:28 UTC

Hey, I am sorry to hear about the break up. If you want to talk to someone call me. It sounds almost the exact same as my situation. Be strong, and for the time being try to give yourself some space from trina, i know that isn't what you want, but it might help a bit. And if all else fails you should just hang around the coffee shop when we open up again

-Richard