OK, I don't get this. Why when a husband cheats on his wife is it always the woman who gets blamed? She hasn't broken any vows. Hell, it's perfectly possible she doesn't even know he's married.
I wonder that as well. The person in the relationship is the one breaking the rules of the relationship, that's the person who should bear the majority of the blame.
The person outside of the relationship, assuming he/she knew of the relationship, is still doing a shit thing, but not to the same degree as the person in the relationship.
Simple it is easier to blame the other woman since she is the competitor for the man, than it is to see the man as being unfaithful. It makes me sad to see two women fight each other over a lout who two-timed them both, instead of joining forces and giving said lout what he deserves.
I was once the second of five affairs a woman had behind her husband's back but the first one she admitted to so he blamed me for everything. For some reason it seemed easier to blame the guy who he didn't live with then the woman he woke up next to. A fellow I use to work with beat up his wife's lover even though that man never even knew the woman was married.
So, my experience is it isn't just the other woman so much as the other person that gets blamed.
True enough, this post was inspired by someone ranting at "the other woman". The other woman might well be a shit human being, but the fact of the matter is, she's not the one betraying her spouse.
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The person outside of the relationship, assuming he/she knew of the relationship, is still doing a shit thing, but not to the same degree as the person in the relationship.
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So, my experience is it isn't just the other woman so much as the other person that gets blamed.
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