Friends Locked Friday

[howtodateababe]

Here they are, your questions answered. And remember, if you have a question, email it to: scooter_waz_ere(at)hotmail.com

Dear Lex, I was hoping you could cover something that is exceedingly basic: how to ask a girl out in general, and how to ask a girl out, and this is the first time you've met her, in specific.

Signed-

Can't Do Gramma

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Comments

[af_jester]

Thanks for the reply... however, you missed the mark on the women. I am NOT looking for a woman in a committed relationship. I actually refuse to get involved with that kind of woman. Plus infedelity is 'against the law' for military (though it doesnt stop others). So your advice is to find someone intersted.... wow... Im active duty military and happen to be gone often. This day and age... women are too needy for attention. What a decent man has to offer them isnt good enough. So when any guy finds them, they deploy, they are off with their legs open to anyone else willing to show them even the slightest amount of attention

[howtodateababe]

Try and remember, they're saying it to be nice.

They may not want to date you, that doesn't mean they don't like you as a person. Guys AND girls use these lines and they use them to soften the blow.

Just because you don't want to date someone, doesn't mean you should be hurtful. Little white lies grease the wheels of society. Plus, in all honesty, I suspect if a guy asked me out and I said: "No, you're ugly." I'd probably get punched in the face.

You're making a lot of generalisations about women that I don't believe. I think anyone who cheats is scum--I don't believe in excuses for that kind of thing. Male or female.

However not all women are unable to be faithful while their man is away. I suggest looking for sweeter, shy girls. The kind who you WON'T meet at bars. Do you really think all the nice Muslim/Hindu/Christian girls are out there slutting it up while their partners are away?

For the record, avoid implying all women are anything when trying to land a girl. VERY unattractive.

[howtodateababe]

They exist. They're around. They're spending all their time asking me where the nice guys are!

Try sporting clubs and charities.

Also, have you tried asking your gay and bi friends to introduce you to nice girls?

[howtodateababe]

I ask guys for their numbers all the time.

However, if you resent women? They pick up on that. They know you don't like them and react accordingly. If someone girl was ranting about guys being pigs, would you want to date her?

I only suggest bringing a flower IF you known the girl for a while and you think she won't realise its a date. It's not to please her, its to make it obvious it's a date so you don't have to spell it out.