Bisexuality

[htmraw]

Hey everyone, I'm actually going to do an opinions post now so please comment/give your opinions if you have any. Don't worry about censoring your comments because I'm not very sensitive about this (you would think I would be but really anti-bisexual sentiment doesn't offend me

Comments

[kei_kun19]

i believe that there is no such thing as a true bisexual. what i mean by that is that to be a "true" bisexual you like both genders and equal 50/50. every person (up to this point) that is said to be bisexual for instance i know a guy who is bisexual who is more straight than gay. i also know a girl who is bisexual but she says she is more lesbian than straight

[htmraw]

Actually I'm really more of an oddball bisexual. Often I my sexuality just changes to suit my mood or whoever I'm with. For example recently I may as well be gay because I've really only been interested in guys, except for an hour last week where I was straight because I was dancing and had an excuse to stare at my teacher's (female) hips for 60 min.

Really though I understand the whole semi-bisexual thing. I'm usually more attracted to one than the other (and usually men) but for me it's also a matter of beliefs because I think that you shouldn't rule out falling in love with anyone based on their gander.

[blue_bandanna]

i'm willing to oppose that view! i know for a fact that i like guys and girls equally. i looooove my polyamorous nature because it allows me to express that love of both genders equally without "cheating" as such. i don't think this is being greedy, but i do think that it is important for polyamorous relationships to be completely open and for all parties to be informed. for example, i told julian before i met nikita that i was quite happy with him making out with her even if she wasn't interested in me, but he had to tell her about me first so that she'd have the full story before she got involved. polyamory also has to be 100% jealousy-free otherwise it just can't work. the other problem is that people think loving two people at once means sharing a finite quantity of love between two people and thus loving each person less. if this were the case, surely nobody should have more than one child or friend or pet. no, because love is infinite, it cannot decrease when it is shared between more people. that's one of the greatest things

[htmraw]

Totally agree. I'm all for polyamory. Still it's a view that I found and it was worth expressing.

Several things

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Firstly. I am totally straight. Yup. No men for felix

[htmraw]

Thanks for commenting. It's kinda hard to understand bisexuality if you aren't in some way involved in it. But good of you to share your views.

[curiousjazzical]

i agree. there is no such thing as a true bisexual. i believe there is varying degrees of biseuxality and then to homosexuality.

i consider myself straight, but i have shared "moments" with people of the same sex. i enjoy "dabbling" if you will, but i don't think i could ever fully have a relationship with a female.

guys are pretty, but i mean look at us females, we are pretty sexy! The female form is far sexier than the male because it is curvilinear and round and soft, its the connotation with this that generally creates the feeling that females are sexier and softer on the eyes. (and i don't mean this in a way to thrust my opinions on people)

and that's my 2 cents ^_^

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exactly! Men arent sexy, but females are.
And who finds the penis good looking.. i mean really..
:P

[htmraw]

ewwww... the penis is gross. But I still think men are sexy.

[kaetian]

i think people can be any thing they damn well want to be. and who says you can't be equally attracted to both men and women? I myself do not find women to be at all appealing and (having probly told keegan this already) i reckon i have what i laughingly call a "gay soul" - as in, i'm obviously female, i'm fine with being female (not transgender or anything) but for myself i cannot even comprehend the thought of ME (not anyone else - it's fine for them) of me being anything other than a friend for girls. and i love me the men. *snickers* and I like the idea of men together. so ireckon that i have a gay soul, and that were i a guy i'd be gay

[blue_bandanna]

a) you are fucking awesome kate. long live the oracle!
b) why do you call keegan buinnean???

[kaetian]

heh - bwin- eh- awn. sapling, in gaelic. i thought it appropriate, who some reasn.

and i am the best fucking oracle that ever did live. oh, baby baby yeah.

[htmraw]

Thanks Kate, love you!