Possible?

[hufakatiechan]

Is it possible for someone to be TOO nice? Too caring? Too loving and in touch with others emotions and needs? I'm beginning to DEFINATELY feel that I may be that person that cares far too much. I've been told it many times through my life but shrugged it off as a compliment or something but I'm beginning to see it as a problem. Ray told me this

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[swandthe7d]

*hugs* i love you because your sweet... and you're emotional... and you go on 300 line rants... you are the little sister i never wanted but got for halloween XD if you want to let owen go.. then let him go... you're ultamitely hurting him by letting him believe 'THIS' is love and that he loves you and that you love him back... it'll hurt at first but maybe years later he'll thank you.

BTW your favorite color is BLACK since you wear it so much.... JP JP!!

[cut_to_black]

Someone can be too nice, they can let other people walk all over them just because they don't want anyone to be sad or hurt. Yes, you do do that lovie. But you haven't done anything wrong this time, and I think you're beating yourself up over it way too much. I don't know what's really going on with you and this guy because we haven't talked for so long. From the sounds of it your mind is made up about him, and now he just needs to know this. Talking to him is hard and may hurt but ultimately you know it's the right thing to do. And as for Dustin...you haven't been with him in a really long while. You haven't seen him in a long time. But if he makes you happy, I guess that's what's important. I do want you to be happy, but just..be careful, ok?
You know I'm here if you ever want to talk.

Black and Hot Pink btw. =)

[jcritter]

You can absolutly be too nice. It's good to be nice, but it's worse to be a push-over.
I don't know too much about this situation, but here's a link from a quick google search.
I hope you'll feel better.

[hufakatiechan]

co-dependency? Thats something i've never thought about... Hmm.. definately another thing I should look at.