living in the shadow of someone else's dream....

[hwmprincess]

Well its been awhile since I've had time to write... my birthday was awesome! Last weekend was one of the best ever. Friday night Erin and Arpana took me out. We met up with tons of my friends and then headed over to Brent and Brad's house for a party. It was so much fun.  Saturday Ashley came up to stay with me. We went to Olive Garden with James

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[harriett_louise]

as long as you are happy...then thats all that matters! And hello...he should know that there is a waiting period for the whole "friends" thing to start...its a standard! Good luck!

[hwmprincess]

I can't tell you how right you are! You're a brilliant girl Shelby... I am very happy. The last couple weeks have been way too stressful. So give me some more of your intellect: how does one remain on neutral grounds with a very recent ex yet let them know you need space? Also let them know that activities that took place while you were a couple will not continue (cough cough)....????

[harriett_louise]

you just got to let him know that it will take a little while for you to get back to a just friends status....and he needs to respect that and the fact that anything you did as a couple...stops when you are no longer a couple. If he can't deal..he wasn't meant to be a good friend either. (geez...If I give any more advice..I'm really going to have to charge you..hahahaha!) Good Luck!

[hwmprincess]

haha thanks you are so good to me! i owe you girl.