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[hyperblaster]

I can't believe I posted what I just did the other day. I was putting up checking my messages, thinking you'll all hate me. Thanks a lot for all the supportive comments

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[knittykittycook]

I again chime in with the welcome back. Enter some unsolicited advice from a near perfect-stranger

[wombat_socho]

THIS STRANGER SPEAKS TRUTH.

[hyperblaster]

I guess I have a lot of issues to work out. And I've started seeing a therapist. In general, I'm quite uncomfortable about sex. Part of the reason is that I was in a Catholic convent for twelve years of my life. I would not have even seen a part for months at a time. Part of the whole thing about being scared and apprehensive of men definitely came from that.

[wombat_socho]

Good luck with the therapy - sex can be a lot of fun, but it can also be uncomfortable and clumsy at first especially with the relationship thing in there complicating matters.

[izuko]

Actually, a lot of things make sense now, especially about your hasty departure. Still, we guys aren't all bad.

Anyways, if you need someone to talk to, my IM is on my front page. Go ahead and try talking about things instead of letting them overwhelm you. It may help. ^_-

[hyperblaster]

Thanks for the offer. I'm getting help resolving my problems. It feels to know I always have friends I can turn to!

[izuko]

Ungh... don't go to a pro. They'll only give you more problems.

Your friends have an interest in seeing you whole. Therapists just have an interest in seeing you again next week. Maybe a priest would be good, or a nun. I'm not catholic, but I have a lot more faith in them.

[hyperblaster]

I can hardly see a priest or a nun being sympathetic with my situation. They'll probably say, "Ask forgiveness for your sin, and all shall be well".