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hyperchic413

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Jan 11, 2005 21:17

GREAT this is just what i wanted to come home to tonight!!! Fuck this!! My mother and i should have never backed out on moving in the first place! And how i thought i (we) believed you... how you would quit drinking and that you never meant for us to leave all those nights you screamed at us to get the fuck out... and then when we were sooo close ( Read more... )

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frozen_sunshine January 12 2005, 02:36:54 UTC

Woah what the hell happened? Talk to me Anna.

umm... hyperchic413 January 12 2005, 03:09:08 UTC

all this shit has been happening for the past year or even more where he will get soo drunk and scream at my mom and i to get out of his house and we cant live here anymore but then he never remembers anything that happened the night before when he wakes up in the morning, he says he never means it and that he is sorry. so my mom and i forgive him and say its alright. but why would he be saying all that if he didnt really mean it?!?! so we said we were looking for a new place a few times but nothing happened then over the summer we found this cutest home in a trailer park, i was perfect for us and it was amazing but after figuring out the money issues we'd have and him begging us to stay, we gave it up. so he said he'd quit drinking and he would fix up the house and get a job and he didnt stick to anything he said but for maybe the first month or so, he painted the living room and that was about it. so now its getting back to how it used to be...

Re: umm... frozen_sunshine January 12 2005, 03:11:22 UTC

That sucks. I'm sorry. I hope everything turns out all right. Mike can be an ass. He really needs to grow up.

alcoholics anonymous January 12 2005, 20:08:10 UTC

There's only one way an alcoholic can get sober and that is through treatment and AA, not fights, promises and apologies. Take the long view. You and your mom can't control someone else's behaviors. Don't be codependent! Go to Alanon. Take care of yourself, even if your mom can't. Alanon friend

bella_prncpssa January 12 2005, 21:16:42 UTC

taygonewildpt2 January 13 2005, 01:22:20 UTC

I'v been through the same thing but it was with my dad
It took a drunken motorcycle accident which almost killed him to stop drinking.. sad how it has to go to such extreams for them to finaly open their eyes.. don't worry you'll be out of there in no time.. anytime you ever need me im here i know the feelings..

hyperchic413 January 13 2005, 02:05:24 UTC

i figured that almost losing all he had or even being locked up for almost a year would have changed things... but i guess not... im not sure how much more extreme he needs?? maybe nothing will ever work. which is life.

brando417 January 14 2005, 03:32:12 UTC

Harsh.
But I know how Buck is.
So it's understood. I know you'll still be around.
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