Repeating Patterns

[hyperthymesiac]

Maybe, I started to repeat my mom's pattern when I was younger. After all, I moved to another state with a guy I barely knew based on a momentary feeling that I assumed had to be how you "just knew". (I now know that it's a characteristic of his type that they are very intense. During the good phases, it will seem like they love you more than

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[twofootsmall]

Everyone knows it tends to be a fake promise, that you're just as likely to end up divorced, but I'm not a fan of saying things I don't mean.

This. Because it binds me, in my own mind, to stay.

I would recommend to you the book The Gift of Fear by Gavin de Becker. A great read and very, very helpful in understanding that mind set - I think you might recognise some of the situations and outcomes.