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[i0love0bam]

ok. does everyone remember my thing with victor. well i saw him again today in walmart. i was with andrew and he helped me get andrew's new bb gun. i wanted to get his number to stay intouch or whatever but i was scared what andrew might think cause he knows what happened between us. i didn't know if andrew would freak out and think i wanna hook

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[butrflyprinces]

Well...he does work at Wal*Mart and I know I see him just about every time I go in there, so you could always try to find him one day when Andrew's not with you and talk to him. I mean...it's not like you hafta go up there out of your way or anything, just make a slight point to look out for him next time you have to go shopping. That or I totally dont mind embarrassing myself so you can get your closure. I know I would want someone to do it for me if they had the oppurtunity...and me and Victor are pretty cool! If you want I'll do the whole Jr. High thing and ask for his number, or give him yours, or I'll even go as far as to pass a note to him with all of your thoughts and questions and number so he can get back to you with the answers you need. Whatever you want. I mean...considering how long you and Andrew have been going out, I think he should realize that you dont want anything to do with him romantically and should trust you because he should know you well enough to believe you just want closure. I do. Besides, him keeping you

[anonymous]

Always be honest to everyone in your life. One lie will lead to the next. Think about why you need closure is it really important. Or is it that you still have feelings for Victor. Doesn't have to be romantic feelings. Tell Andrew how you feel about this, that you would like to know how a friend is doing. Otherwise leave it alone, the past is the past and if things are as good with you and Andrew, why bother with it or maybe Andrew will understand. Then again he may feel somehow betrayed. You know who cares what happened and what Victor thought afterward,the question really is do you still want him in your life as just a friend that you care about.There is no harm in that at all in fact if this is why I really admire you, THE REALITY IS THAT YOU SHOULD CARE ENOUGH ABOUT YOURSELF AND ALWAYS BE HONEST WITH YOURSELF,AND OTHERS, YOU ARE A VERY BRIGHT BEAUTIFUL GIRL WITH SO MUCH TO OFFER. We make allot of mistakes in our life we can try and mend ourselves but its others we have no control over. No matter what happens and what the real