It has been a while since I posted in Live Journal. Perhaps it is because I have finally been pretty content with my life, and I have had nothing to complain, or whine about
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*offers huge hugs in huge amounts* I wish I could offer some kind of advice, some kind of words to make things better.
I can say that men can be stupid, but on the same token, so can women... Feh. People can be stupid. They make the wrong decisions, they stop using their brain and in some cases, stop following their hearts, and things go wrong, people get hurt, whether that was the intention, or not.
I sincerely hope, though, that he a: isn't a puppet, b: didn't do this deliberately and c: comes to his senses or d: gets run over by Karma if this all was just a mind-game.
In the meantime, there really is no advice I can offer other than keep your head up. If you want to talk, need a distraction, or whatever, I'm around in the evenings. *offers more hugs*
Things like that make me want to take a CluexFour to someone's head.
We are not toys, as so many people believe we are. We think, we feel, and if you want to play mind games, go play chess against a computer. I've known people who love that kind of power-game/mind-fuck .... and I'm sorry I ever talked to them. ... Even when my ex-boyfriend screwed me over, he sat for an hour just saying "I'm so sorry" ... and his was also a mind-game for 3 years running.
The fact that Adam didn't do even that - even to say the words if he didn't /feel/ them - if only to at least offer some /semblence/ of comfort or closure or /something/ to you, a friend, a love, an aquaintence, it wouldn't have mattered by then. At least he could have acknowledged with empty words.
You don't deserve that kind of treatment. No one deserves that shit. They just don't.
It bugs me horribly to see people go through this, and I seriously wish there was something more I could say or do :(
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I can say that men can be stupid, but on the same token, so can women... Feh. People can be stupid. They make the wrong decisions, they stop using their brain and in some cases, stop following their hearts, and things go wrong, people get hurt, whether that was the intention, or not.
I sincerely hope, though, that he a: isn't a puppet, b: didn't do this deliberately and c: comes to his senses or d: gets run over by Karma if this all was just a mind-game.
In the meantime, there really is no advice I can offer other than keep your head up.
If you want to talk, need a distraction, or whatever, I'm around in the evenings. *offers more hugs*
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We are not toys, as so many people believe we are. We think, we feel, and if you want to play mind games, go play chess against a computer. I've known people who love that kind of power-game/mind-fuck .... and I'm sorry I ever talked to them. ... Even when my ex-boyfriend screwed me over, he sat for an hour just saying "I'm so sorry" ... and his was also a mind-game for 3 years running.
The fact that Adam didn't do even that - even to say the words if he didn't /feel/ them - if only to at least offer some /semblence/ of comfort or closure or /something/ to you, a friend, a love, an aquaintence, it wouldn't have mattered by then. At least he could have acknowledged with empty words.
You don't deserve that kind of treatment. No one deserves that shit. They just don't.
It bugs me horribly to see people go through this, and I seriously wish there was something more I could say or do :(
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