Comments | i_am_adonia: Astounded that we will never grow up.

i_am_adonia

Astounded that we will never grow up.

Mar 10, 2005 14:46

I look around at my fellow class mates and I realize that they will never change ( Read more... )

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e1337nub March 10 2005, 15:13:51 UTC

How will we never grow up?
So we have to go through some maturity stage to grow up?
All of us have to get married to grow up?
No, we don't.
I'm sure most of us like being immature, and want to stay that way while we can. It's not our fault you have burdened yourself with your pregnancy, that was your choice, and your childhood is over. Leave us to ours. If you want to be mean, then don't judge us on how we act. We aren't acting to please you, we are acting for ourselves. Since noone else is going to say anything, I will.

On the contrary Ms. White... you want everyone to treat you like you are special. Why else would you come into class everyday and talk about your stomach? I leave you at that, say what you may.
I'm sure I speak for all of whom you called friends when I say this... You have most definately changed.
-sama

newsound March 10 2005, 16:25:11 UTC

If it makes you so sad, then don't think about it. I don't guess its really much of your business how other people act. Its not like you are the greatest person in the world either. Just because we are all immature now doesn't mean we can't or won't grow up later. You can't expect people to grow up just because you have to grow up so fast.

checkrdromance March 10 2005, 19:59:16 UTC

i think you may have made your statement a little to broad jana, and you might piss off more people than you intended.

youcanguesswho March 11 2005, 05:31:29 UTC

A) Look at what you wrote... Read it twice. Now think about how 'mature' you have been for the last year or so. Do you think you really made the most 'mature' decisions?

B) This is the last time that people will take care of us. People are just milking it for all its worth, and why shouldn't they? What is so wrong with having a little fun with life?

C) And finally... a lot of people have already stopped talking to you.

i_am_adonia March 14 2005, 12:36:47 UTC

Cole so nice to hear from you again. How is the tattoo?? I never said I have always been mature but I know that right now I am making mature decisions. And how are you so involved in my life to know who and why people have stopped talking to me.
But anyways, it was nice to hear from you.

ainhoa_si March 11 2005, 09:13:13 UTC

I guess that I can speak from a place none of you can..I'm out of high school, and it's a BIG change. I was independant to start with and it was(and is) still hard at times. If your parents are rich enough to pay for everything you have during college and you accept it, your spoiled, bratty, and immature(not to mention lucky). Getting help every once in a while isn't a bad thing if you need it. It is when you lean on others. This most certainly doesn't apply to everyone; however, if you aren't mature enough yet to go off alone cold turkey, then you need to grow up..NOW. No offense, but Jana has a VERY good point when she says that most of the people that are immature now will never grow up. Once again, I'm not pointing fingers; however, it's true. Think about people like Tee Baker. Do any of you actually think that he is ever going to grow up? Granted, he is funny, a nice guy, and I haven't seen him in a while, but I would bet a lot on the fact that he's still as childish as he was a year ago..two years ago..three years ago..four ( ... )

e1337nub March 11 2005, 10:28:01 UTC

Uh... Jana was very, very immature before she was engaged to Josh.
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ainhoa_si March 13 2005, 17:57:03 UTC

You shall notice that I not once pointed fingers. This means that the category of "immature people" is not limited to anyone. Therefore, that includes Jana if she is or is not immature. I did NOT point fingers. I simply stated the facts of what I've learned.