As in the city in Egypt. I woke up in the middle of the night thinking "Cairo. That's a cool name. Great thing I wont remember it in the morning."
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It may seem like you're alone in the world.. that you're the only one in the world not doing something, but it's not true. There's plenty of people who wait to have sex.. just like drinking. There's plenty of people who don't drink at all, even when it seems like everyone does it.
Big deal he had sex, he is with you now right? why does it have to matter? if you trust him, if you love him, if you want to still be with with him. it shouldnt. this isnt meant to sound as harsh as it is going to be but... you were naive, you shouldnt have assumed. so learn from it and let it go. Forgive him, and them, it is the Christian thing to do. move on.
Also "The only reason we're not is because i say no..." good, it also means he wants more than that. if you have said no for a while that is obviously not what he is after, because if he was, you would be out and by the sounds of it he could find somebody else. Feel good, dont feel bad. you are what he wants, not your body.
Hey, I had no idea you kept a livejournal. I was going through my obsessive check everything I know online thing and noticed that someone had friended me without me knowing. How's it going? (I suppose it's nicer to ask than to read a year of your life.)
And don't worry about the sex, some people just don't do it. I've been going out with a girl for a year now, no sex, and no likelihood of any in the future. She even makes fun of me for it, but it's how we work, I suppose. There's no real reason to have sex, I guess.
serioulsy, that's so encouraging to hear! i'm doing really well- davis is fun enough, but i'm still hoping to transfer come junior year. Aside from the horse i love, the boy i love, the town i dont love and the music i miss, nothing is new. Hahah how are you?
I'm doing ok. School's hard, too much work. But at least there's generally good people around, interesting things to do, and it's almost over for a couple months. But man, am I looking forward to be home for a while.
Honestly, I think that a girl that doesn't.. well, "put out" right away is much more beautiful that one that does. Reason being that when it finally does happen, it is so much more awesome. Understand? It's supposed to be special.
I mean, look at me. I haven't had sex yet, and I'm pretty awesome. Pshh. Yeah right. About the awesome part. Actually, that wasn't as funny as I thought it was going to be. I was going to delete that line, but I'm going to leave it up so you can see how awkward I am.
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And people can change. Just pray for it.
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why does it have to matter? if you trust him, if you love him, if you want to still be with with him. it shouldnt. this isnt meant to sound as harsh as it is going to be but... you were naive, you shouldnt have assumed. so learn from it and let it go. Forgive him, and them, it is the Christian thing to do. move on.
Also "The only reason we're not is because i say no..." good, it also means he wants more than that. if you have said no for a while that is obviously not what he is after, because if he was, you would be out and by the sounds of it he could find somebody else. Feel good, dont feel bad. you are what he wants, not your body.
-A Lost Friend Speaks
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How's it going? (I suppose it's nicer to ask than to read a year of your life.)
And don't worry about the sex, some people just don't do it. I've been going out with a girl for a year now, no sex, and no likelihood of any in the future. She even makes fun of me for it, but it's how we work, I suppose. There's no real reason to have sex, I guess.
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But man, am I looking forward to be home for a while.
Where'll you transfer to?
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I mean, look at me. I haven't had sex yet, and I'm pretty awesome.
Pshh. Yeah right. About the awesome part.
Actually, that wasn't as funny as I thought it was going to be. I was going to delete that line, but I'm going to leave it up so you can see how awkward I am.
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