this is where it gets fucking important... and unfortunately bloggy.

[i_love_zombies]

i just realized something interesting about the way we label our relationships... 'symbiotic' is just a really friendly way of saying 'codependent'.while i can understand and respect the West's individualism, i think that we've gone wrong trying to pretend that we should keep secrets to protect ourselves against taking an emotional fall. i try to

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[startacommotion]

i think your right on how we pretend and keep secrets only to protect ourselves. transparently, the way i try to live my life is one day at a time. i try to be true to myself, not forcing decisions relationships. i believe that you have a good head on your shoulders and youll turn out alright.

[throwafit]

you sound like youre going through a bit of a hard time. im guessing its berkeley? mischa and i have talked about this. its strange to think that you will be on your own in a new environment. through all of mischa's school changes, etc. your presence here has remained the constant. are you worrying about how you might feel outside of your comfort zone? sorry, this is the only feedback i could come up with...just the thoughts that came to mind while reading this. ill stop now.

p.s.- i completly agree about symbiosis and codependence. ;)