I think it is hard to say what is "too far". I am absolutely someone who has a tendancy to remind people when they've stepped over the line with me. The key is, you have to have a group of friends who are honest enough with you and with *themselves* to be able to tell you when they feel you've hurt them or you've gone "too far".
It sounds to me like immature behavior is simply one of your boundaries. And you know what? HEALTHY people have boundaries. If we have no boundaries with others, then when would we ever stick up for ourselves and our own happiness? (The answer is, we wouldn't.)
For the record, I think you are a great person. :)
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It sounds to me like immature behavior is simply one of your boundaries. And you know what? HEALTHY people have boundaries. If we have no boundaries with others, then when would we ever stick up for ourselves and our own happiness?
(The answer is, we wouldn't.)
For the record, I think you are a great person. :)
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