Ok, so after that sweet little message I decided I needed to rant. I am so annoyed right now with lying. I feel like I need to get this off my chest but then again I don't want to hurt anyones feelings because some of the people involved are people I care about. I might just use fake names or something - I'll see how it goes
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I'm inclined to believe that if a person is willing to lie about themselves to patch up insecurities, it's because they really, honestly believe that others will not care for them as they are. Lying and building themselves up, they gather, is the only way to persuade someone to care. But of course, as we see from this rant, others find the lying off-putting, and it becomes a vicious cycle. ("Yeah, she said she didn't like me because I lied, but I know she wouldn't have liked the truth, either.")
Naturally, this doesn't excuse the behaviour; it just tries to explain it. Sorry if I'm too analytical for your rant. It just came out.
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