Sounds like your relationship has just calmed down a litte. You know when things start out and you're constantly trying to impress each other? And you're always making your best 'girlfriend'/'boyfriend' efforts? Time passes and as you ease into the relationship you learn that you don't need to put up these fronts anymore. So slowly but surely you stop trying so hard.
It sounds to me like either Chris has stopped making efforts too early OR now that you're both being completely yourselves it's coming to light that he's not quite the man you thought he was...
...I dunno, it's a complicated one to try and get your head around. My advice is talk to him again and emphasise how important it is to you that you talk more often. Perhaps you can reach a compromise with him? Like a 5 minute phonecall every evening, just to say 'hello' and ask about each others days?
<3 things will work out, they always do one way or another.
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It sounds to me like either Chris has stopped making efforts too early OR now that you're both being completely yourselves it's coming to light that he's not quite the man you thought he was...
...I dunno, it's a complicated one to try and get your head around. My advice is talk to him again and emphasise how important it is to you that you talk more often. Perhaps you can reach a compromise with him? Like a 5 minute phonecall every evening, just to say 'hello' and ask about each others days?
<3 things will work out, they always do one way or another.
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