It's difficult to find someone to spend time with amorously on a repeat basis- it just is- the older we get- and I mean year by year- not that you are ancient- the older we get the more specific we are about what we want and need in a partner and the more settled into our personal habits we are- that means we have to find someone who has habits we can tolerate who can tolerate ours as well. We have to learn to love others flaws not just flaunt our own. It's damn hard. That said- you need to get out socially to meet people too- also locally and socially- not just up in some hardened desert plain. If you meet the love of your life and they live 2000 miles away- you have to rearrange your entire life to be with them or they do and then you aren't dating the person you met- but the person they will become after the changes- not the same person at all....
I agree completely. My monogamous relationship was saved by a polyamorous one. Now I have 3 husbands that each complement the others, and so each one's needs are met in different ways by the other partners. :)
It took me a while to figure out that I was not cut out by conventional relationships.
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Pay up, bitch.
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It took me a while to figure out that I was not cut out by conventional relationships.
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