My departure from BellyBuilders.....

[identitystar84]

As some of you may know, the few that still stumble across some of my posts as of lately, I am no longer a member on the forum, BellyBuilders. I will explain why I resigned from the position as moderator of the health forum and why I ultimately left that online community

Comments

[alohawolf]

Hiya! - I'm Aloha, I live up in Bellevue, I found you on.. I think Belly Brigade, and I thought I would take a chance to drop you a line.

People in the weight gain community do seem to be mostly about sex, and less about companionship, same in the general plus size community, you get a bunch of single gay guys in one place, it tends to happen.. biggercity is bad for this, cause you end up with weirdos and creeps from all over the world, not just in your own state..

Anyhow, I thought I would offer up dinner some time, and a chance to meet up, I'm always looking to make new friends..

[alohawolf]

Oh, and congrats on almost getting to 400, I'm about 415 myself.

[magebear]

I do understand. Sorry it got to you. Over the last couple years a lot of the 'old guard' have disappeared from the usual gaining sites.

For me it's not the sex that bothers me, it's just not fun there anymore. Is it me, or did it just get way to catty and bitchy. At one time you could go to (at one time quite a few) gainer sites and have civil conversation dealing with all aspects of gaining. Now it seems to be a bunch of d00dz looking for free fat porn.

[goinfor400]

Well, I'd still like to consider you a friend.

I would like you to read up on polyamory as opposed to polygamy.

In response to the thread in question, I received two personal replies to my in-box. Both of those felt that you attacked me regarding my polyamorous relationship. I tried to explain to them each that none of the comments in the thread offended me, as I respect others' rights to say what they think.

P.S. And yes, Izzy is that crazy in real life.

[williebear]

Bummer on the bellybuilders site doing that to you there. But I definitely understanding where you are coming from on that since I had a relationship in the past and had to deal with that as well.

I do seriously hope we can meet up to eat out with and enjoy each other's company cause I still consider you and Joey as friends and nothing more than that.

[baddabing70]

Smooch!