The shape of Anxiety

[ieuleron]

Lately I've been feeling much reduced social anxiety all around.   I've described this as truly not caring what others thought about me.   If they had a positive response to me, "Great!".   If they have a negative response to me, "Their loss

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[rabbitucker]

It's not unethical to be interested in her.

It is unethical to make her cheat on her boyfriend.

If they're not serious or exclusive (or if he's a jerk, like in the movies), and you think you can get her to dump him in favor of you, then I guess you're welcome to try.

In the end, though, my opinion doesn't matter.

[ieuleron]

if something I do causes pain to myself or another, it is something I would consider unethical to do. If I felt I was doing something that would cause a gal's bf harm, I would generally not be able to do it.

As well, there is no way I can make someone do anything. If she were to cheat on her bf, or just drop the guy, that would be something she would have to deal with, not me.