some say it's all in the innocent poetry

[igbykat]

Thank you all for the comments on the last post. I'm better now. I'm definitely trying to evaluate my life, but I'm not sad about it

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[imagine_ts]

Kat, about guys, a similar thing happend to me.

Whenever I met potential guys, I would immediately compare them with this one boy I once was totally into. No one was like this boy, so I felt like... there aren't guys for me.

Truth is, no one will ever be like him. Everyone is different. I realized that I was blind, thus missed out on a great guy. Because at least one of them is great. Different, but great.

So I decided to stop comparing and contrasting.. it's much better that way.

I feel much better. Things are looking up now. You never know.

I want things to be looking much better for you, too. *hug*

[igbykat]

It's not even that I compare them. There's a guy here who's interested in me but I just can't bring myself to like him in return. There's something strange about him that just creeps me out a little. It's not that I think, "Oh, he's not like Ross," it's more that there's something incompatible. And that's the only guy who's shown any real interest.

*hug*

Thanks for continuing to read and comment, it means so much to me.

[sweet_seventeen]

[i]I hate my period.[/i]

Me too! *slings arm around Kat's shoulders* Solidarity sister! Seriously though, lol mine has been kicking my ass and it hasn't even arrived yet. PMS. Good times. *rolls eyes*

Anyway though, I know that eventually, you'll meet another guy who you liked as much as Ross. It may suck right now, but it sounds like you're doing your best to be positive and putting yourself out there, and really, that's all you can do. So, if I don't see ya...you know, keep on truckin'. :) LOL I love Will Ferrell. (In case you're not as big of a dork as I am, that's from Old School, lol.)

[igbykat]

I hate waiting for the stupid thing! And then I feel gross when it gets here! And while I try not to take my mood swings out on other people, they take a toll on me. ERGH.

Yeah, I hope it'll happen eventually. It's just not happening NOW, which is when I'd like it to happen, but it's a virtue and all that.

[igbykat]

It's nice to see in retrospect what I should have done differently. I won't make the mistakes again. But I'm kicking myself because they were such small things and I really think they would have made a world of difference.

Thank you. *hug*