Comments | igbykat: and i hum to you, sweet clementine

igbykat

and i hum to you, sweet clementine

May 29, 2006 22:41

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victoriafalls May 30 2006, 19:05:58 UTC

Hey Kat! Sorry things are going well. I would have no clue what to do about most of the things you have mentioned. The not thinking you are good enough for TNG - I think you have to really talk to him. Maybe not about it directly but is some way that will make you feel better. This will probably be hard to do long distance wise but maybe when you see him?

Hope things get better. :)

igbykat June 2 2006, 05:27:00 UTC

We've had a couple of talks and he said that he was really sorry about the fat jokes, but that I had a "couple extra pounds," which was, I think, worse than all the fat jokes combined.

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igbykat June 2 2006, 05:28:07 UTC

If I weren't such a perfectionist, life would be easier. MUCH easier.

And the jokes wouldn't hurt so much if I weren't so insecure about my weight to begin with. Grrr.

Thanks, sweetie.

popculturespong June 4 2006, 01:28:13 UTC

Checking in....

igbykat June 6 2006, 04:49:26 UTC

Things are going well. I think that seeing him this past weekend really helped. It's hard to communicate really serious things without touch and he told me that he doesn't think I'm fat at all, that it was just an immature flirting thing, and that when he said I could work out, it was just a suggestion so that I would feel better about myself. Which is fair, I suppose. But he said he'd cease and desist with the fat stuff. Other than that, he treats me so nicely.

lovebit June 8 2006, 06:45:36 UTC

Hey Kat, I just wanted to ask if everything is okay and how things are. Hope everything is fine!

igbykat June 9 2006, 04:12:53 UTC

Aww, thanks, Ola. Things are fine. I think it's less his problem than mine ... I just can't be so insecure all the time. Still just tired from my jobs.

How are you?