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[igbykat]

So TGG broke up with me.

I'm in so much pain, I don't even know what to do.

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[popculturespong]

Oh no! Kat! I don't know what I can do but let me know if I can do anything. Hopefully even that helps.

And there's this: *HUG*

[igbykat]

I wish there were something that someone could do. I seriously feel like I got hit by a truck. It was incredibly sudden. Things were fine...fine...fine...then we left on spring break and he got sort of moody and weird on the phone. But that wasn't unusual because he always gets that way when he spends extended periods of time at home. Then we got back from break and he was a little strange. He just wasn't terribly affectionate and he didn't seem as happy to see me as normally he is. Then things were normal for a couple of days. Then he stopped calling me. Whenever I would call, he would say he didn't have time to hang out. And on Saturday night, he came over and I said, "I'm questioning whether you want to be in this relationship." And he said, "I am too," then went on to say that over the past couple of months, he'd been feeling like we were becoming more friends than anything else. He refused to explain any further or to try and talk it out with me and just left, saying he'd really like us to be friends

[popculturespong]

Aw, Kat, sweetie. Please don't apologize. I wouldn't've responded if I didn't want you to respond. I can't tell you what he's thinking, but it doesn't sound like he's completely sure either. I don't believe you should try to convince someone to be with you, but I do think he should've given you more of an explanation, especially if he wants to be friends. While I understand this is truly very painful, like most things, things get easier with time.

[igbykat]

There's this little voice in my head, thinking he might reconsider...but I have to try to shut it up. Because if he doesn't, then I'll be heartbroken, and if he does...it still probably won't be right. But when it feels like I have a knife through my heart and I haven't been able to eat anything in two days...it's hard not to turn to that little voice for comfort

[americandreamer]

*hugs* I'm so sorry!

[igbykat]

Thanks. I'll be okay eventually.

[literati555]

Oh, Kat. I'm so, so sorry. :(

I wish I knew what to say - I mean, I have no advice or knowledge to offer, obviously, because I am a bit unknowing in these things, but I have no doubt that you will be okay eventually. You're strong, and you deserve the best, and from even the extent to which I know you through LJ I am positive you'll find whatever the best is for you because you do. Take care of yourself! And again, I am so sorry you have to deal with this; I wish I could help somehow better. *HUG*

[igbykat]

Thanks...I never really knew what to say to my friends who had gone through some traumatizing breakup...now I get it...you don't know until it happens to you, so I'm very glad that this hasn't happened to you. Right now, I feel like I'm going to grow up to be the cat lady. :(

[literati555]

Awwww. :( I have every confidence you won't. And I very, very much wish it hadn't happened to you. I'm thinking of you. *hugs again*

[roxybluegirl7]

I'm so sorry. I wish I knew what to do or say, but just know you have a lot of support and love from your friends here.

*HUGS*

[igbykat]

Thank you...I need all the support I can get right now.

[bellalumina]

Oh, Kat.

*hugs*

I know that kicked-in-the-gut feeling. There's not much worse. Let me know if you need to talk!

[igbykat]

It BLOWS. I seriously feel like I got run over by a truck. I might take you up on the talking thing, be warned.