I totally think chemistry is absolutley necessary for a long term relationship.. no question about it. Nec and I still have it after.. 2 years online and 2.5 in person and we still can't stop pawing each other at every opportunity. You've gotta have the sparks, otherwise he's not a boyfriend/significan't other/ husband/lover/whatever, he's a roommate who just happens to fluff your pillows once in a while.
-exactly-. johnathon and i have nothing in common, seriously... but we laugh constantly, and seem to have everything to talk about. he genuinely cares about what i have to say, and listens to me and respects my opinions...
for the longest time i felt like love, relationships, blah blah were based entirely on finding someone that understood and completely related to you. and now i'm seeing that that's bullshit. opposites attract, completely. he's everything i thought that i never wanted, and just saying his name in my head gives me chills. it's totally insane and amazing and i'm seriously not saying i love him, but there is definitely potential there.
we've been friends for about eight months now, and constantly denying that there was anything there. everyone else seemed to see it before we did, and we were both so different from one another that i guess he felt the same way i did and figured that it wouldn't work. and here it is, finally, and it's so right that i don't even know what to think about it.
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the guy i'm talking about's name is johnathon.
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for the longest time i felt like love, relationships, blah blah were based entirely on finding someone that understood and completely related to you. and now i'm seeing that that's bullshit. opposites attract, completely. he's everything i thought that i never wanted, and just saying his name in my head gives me chills. it's totally insane and amazing and i'm seriously not saying i love him, but there is definitely potential there.
we've been friends for about eight months now, and constantly denying that there was anything there. everyone else seemed to see it before we did, and we were both so different from one another that i guess he felt the same way i did and figured that it wouldn't work. and here it is, finally, and it's so right that i don't even know what to think about it.
and... sorry for rambling,
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