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[ikedisagrees]

I think I'm having more trouble with ending the relationship with Robynne than I'd like to admit. I've been able to ignore it for a while. But last night I had a very strange dream. Funny how something as simple as a dream can make you elaborate on pinned up thoughts

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[kirazi]

Getting over someone you really love is the hardest thing in the world, especially when the entire relationship had so many really good moments and really bad moments. I'm STILL not "over" Sam; I still hate him more than anything in the world, I still want to hurt him, and I'm still furious over how he used me. I don't know if I ever will be "over" it, but I know I can try to learn from my past and not get hurt like that again.

Anyway. What happened between you guys is so tragic because you both wanted it at some point and for whatever reason it just couldn't work. Your dream just sounds like connecting a couple of things you wish hadn't happened to make them happy again.
No one ever said loving was easy, but you know that. Getting over love is even harder. Just take your time. *Hugs*

[darkessence]

-hugz- I'm not even sure what to say right now. I wish I could help you make everything better but I think only you and time can make things heal.

I agree with Kir, getting over someone that you love is something that is very difficult to do. Personally, I don't think you get 'over them'. You just learn to accept what is happening and tolerate it. I feel that a big step is learning to be happy for them, even if it means them being alone or with another person. I know that would be very difficult to do at this time.

I just really hope that things get better for you soon. I know that when someone very close to you seems to have turned your back on you, you start wondering if you can trust anyone. Just think carefully and watch the actions of your friends and you'll be able to tell who really cares and who is just pretending.

[kitaki]

:[ i wish i knew what to say. i'm sorry.
<3 feel better soon.

[arisingprophet]

You know how I feel about this - I even went so far as to attempt to warn you, to protect you, solely because I didn't like how this situation was playing out.

Honestly, Ike, I believe that you are doing the right thing. I know your dream hurts, I know sometimes you wish none of it never happened - but just remember, it would have happened eventually. How she, and even they, are treating you now is downright shallow. You did something that would save heartbreak in the end, and if they're going to act like children, you need nothing to do with them.

You are being the mature one here, and in the end, that will play out. We may not be close, but I'm here for you. I know how it hurts to lose someone you love, and I know how much it hurts to lose a bunch of friends over stupid stuff. I'm willing to listen, and help you through it.

You're a great person. <3 You'll come out on top, I'm sure of it.

[ex_wildwolfd841]

I couldn't have said it better myself. You're awesome<3

And I am here too Gala. You already knew what I felt about this, and how much I tried to help you too. I was only trying to keep you from getting hurt. But I guess you were going to be hurt anyway, I'm so sorry that you are feeling like this, you are not alone though, we're here with you<3 if you need us.

[gloomfactory]

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