this has been an amuesing night

[ilikepopsicles]

between talking to Kasia and shit with Shannon I officially hate girls at the moment. But there both funny. Shannon is calling me Megan, thinking that it will piss me off, forgetting my parents call me that. And the fact she told her mom everything that happened, doesnt bother me either, ill probably end up talking to my mom. Im not the one that

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[anonymous]

sometimes you just have to let things go. you both were acting really immature. and there are two sides to every story. maybe you offended her in some way too. you never know.
and i think you both need not to talk to each other. block her, she'll block you. and don't get friends involved harassing one another online. it's pathetic. you shouldn't bring yourself to the level of someone else, just because you get into an argument.
you both need to back off from each other, and go your seperate ways. just think of all of whats happened as a learning experience. just move on, and let go.

[ilikepopsicles]

I honestly know I didnt offend her, and even if I had, she should have spoken up. I'm through with her. And im guessing this is one of her friends, so, your hearing her side of the story. Yes I know I was acting a little immature, but when someone offends me and a community, in which one of her good friends belongs to, it just seemes right to let him know how she really feels.

[anonymous]

I don't know who you are, but I read the conversation, I was here that night it all happened. This is the only thing I am saying. I know that it wasn't her intent to get that involved with the conversation. You have been pushing her buttons. You should have seen her everytime the two of you faught. If you could have looked in her eyes, the way I did; you'd have seen that this isn't what she wanted. She doesn't want to fight with you. Things got pushed way too far this time, and you made her snap. It wasn't directed to any other trans person. It was just for you. She has trans friends, gay and lesbian friends, and straight friends too. It shouldn't matter who she decides to be with, whether a girl or guy. She totally supported you when you told her that you were trans. I feel that you should have been straight with her from the start. (no pun intended). People who know her, know that she isn't the person you have been making her out to be. She is the nicest person I know. And she hates confrentation. But without people

[ilikepopsicles]

First of all, how was I know honest with Shannon, the fact that I didn't say that I was transgender? I did tell her that I was a HUGE bull/butch/stone dyke/boi. So pardon me for not saying that. And when a comment is made, and is offensive to me, I have the right to talk to my friends about it, like Shannon talked to her mom. So what that the people I told took it offensive, that too is there right.
With my journal, I don't find the need to delete what I put in there, I put it there for a reason.

[anonymous]

mj,
I know that you think shannon is a really bad person right now, but your looking at one side,, your side,,, i have talked to shannon and she says that shes putting things past her,, she knows very well she had a part in it... thats the thing about forgiveness it works wonders,,, im not saying you have to forgive her, im just saying , put it behind you .. the two of you wont talk anymore and youll live your separate lives...

im not saying your a bad person, im saying your BOTH at fault,,,

this is from a friend to a friend

[ilikepopsicles]

first of all i dont even know who you are, and second, shannon shouldnt have made that comment