Comments | ilovebruiser: Everyone gets a 'difficult one'

ilovebruiser

Everyone gets a 'difficult one'

May 25, 2012 14:00

Yep. After two babies who have been relatively easy, I've scored a spewing cat napping serious Sally who cries 90% of her day. It's safe to say as much as I love this little lady I have had trouble 'enjoying' her. Infact I find myself willing her on and wishing away her baby days. I daydream about her being a smiley happy easy baby.. And have felt ( Read more... )

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glitterintheair May 26 2012, 00:30:27 UTC

This is 10000000% Theo. All he did was cry. And spew. And cry. He was the most miserable being i'd ever come across Nae. We had a kinda gym down here, where 3 of the moms had babies in the same month as Theo and without fail, every week, he'd scream and puke and scream and cling to me.... while their babies smiled and cooed. Renee, who had Chase a month before me and lived next door would be playing outside happily with Chase (could hear, as we shared a fence) while I would be walking him around the garden crying with him. Stark contrast to my little girl who so so so very rarely cried. I did NOT enjoy Theo for months and months and months, to put it lightly. I was GREEN with envy at just about every other "perfect" baby, I blamed myself. I am honestly scared to have a boy for the main reason being that raising Theo was my idea of hell.

I dont have any advice, I didnt handle it well, but doctors is a good place to start. Dont blame yourself, and do what you have to do to survive <3 <3 <3 I wish I had more advice, but to be honest ( ... )

ilovebruiser May 31 2012, 00:11:06 UTC

Thanks bebe. I've been able to handle it up until now but I think with my friends having babies and rhys' sister hanging around a lot with her baby it's kind of made me remember how normal babies are iykwim? The jealousy is absolutely raging and I'm angry that I haven't had that this time around and it makes me sad to think that Chels and I don't get to do the big proud show off to friends because she's just not happy with anyone else. I do remember reading about Theo being the same, please remind me that he grew into a perfectly happy cheeky little man!