So i had a great time at laneway yesterday with Tansie, a girl i have never actually spoken to except once on facebook to say hi, and once to ask if she wanted my extra laneway ticket
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im sorry that life seems so shit for you right now....but i do absolutely believe with all i have within me that you are a great mama. how could you not be? like you said, you are doing your very best to give your kiddies a completely different life to the one that you had....that's a good mum.
i can't help on the relationship, mine fell apart. but i can tell you that you get through it when it happens....its takes a long time, but you get through it. you do learn to survive on your own with kids. and after a while, you cant imagine it being any other way.
i think that you need massive applause for being brave enough to write about this.
and i think its really heavy, and there is no way that i can say or do anything to help you.
maybe you can talk to my mum? she was married with a child at 17, with a family pressuring her to be a certain way. with a lazy husband apparently. maybe she can enlighten you more than i can?
i dont know what to say other than i love you, and value you and think you are an amazing person who needs to get through this. im not sure how you will, but you can. you have the strength to.
geez, when i first read that i thought it said i need massive ABUSE for writing this... haha.
I'm kind of ok now, i was just having a bad night. things still need to change, but i dunno what to do, nic still doesn't think we have problems, even tho he went and spent $60 on the new WoW expansion pack, after i said no.
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i can't help on the relationship, mine fell apart. but i can tell you that you get through it when it happens....its takes a long time, but you get through it. you do learn to survive on your own with kids. and after a while, you cant imagine it being any other way.
dont give up....stay strong. kia kaha
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and i think its really heavy, and there is no way that i can say or do anything to help you.
maybe you can talk to my mum? she was married with a child at 17, with a family pressuring her to be a certain way. with a lazy husband apparently. maybe she can enlighten you more than i can?
i dont know what to say other than i love you, and value you and think you are an amazing person who needs to get through this. im not sure how you will, but you can. you have the strength to.
im gonna talk to my mum for you.
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haha.
I'm kind of ok now, i was just having a bad night. things still need to change, but i dunno what to do, nic still doesn't think we have problems, even tho he went and spent $60 on the new WoW expansion pack, after i said no.
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