okay, I just realized I really need to update here again. And since it's Friday night and I have nothing better to do than to wash my sheets... I figure now's as good a time as any
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We talked about this for awhile, and you know what my perspective is, however, that info about the date you didn't tell me. I'm curious as to whether his parents are a bit controlling. They may feel that if he gets "involved" then his studies will suffer. You can see all the pressure he's putting on himself about grades. Perhaps they'd be "disappointed" in him if he said that he was "casually dating" someone while at school. It would appear that he's doing all this to make his parents proud, and not doing it for himself. I've known lots of people in college that were like that. They might have said something on the phone to him like, you're not slacking off or at a "party" right now, are you? Just a thought, and I *could* be way off base too. Oh, there is one more possibility and I hate to mention it, but I think it's in the back of your mind.....there might be a "special" someone back home. I really hope for your sake that I am 100% wrong with this, as well.
quite some entry u got here sis. i guess things like this have to be observed. i think that being patient is what's gonna solve this confusion in this one. but once u start feeling that things don't seem to be changing, then you know it's time for a talk. that's all i got about this one.
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We talked about this for awhile, and you know what my perspective is, however, that info about the date you didn't tell me. I'm curious as to whether his parents are a bit controlling. They may feel that if he gets "involved" then his studies will suffer. You can see all the pressure he's putting on himself about grades. Perhaps they'd be "disappointed" in him if he said that he was "casually dating" someone while at school. It would appear that he's doing all this to make his parents proud, and not doing it for himself. I've known lots of people in college that were like that. They might have said something on the phone to him like, you're not slacking off or at a "party" right now, are you? Just a thought, and I *could* be way off base too. Oh, there is one more possibility and I hate to mention it, but I think it's in the back of your mind.....there might be a "special" someone back home. I really hope for your sake that I am 100% wrong with this, as well.
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