It's been a while...

[imaklutz2877]

And lately, I'm finding that the emotion found in a few posts back (about a year or so ago) has been creeping back into my thoughts. What if I was different? What if I was more of a girlie-girl? Should I be more of a girlie-girl? It's been haunting me...should I change who I am? More like, should I change what I do to fit the idea of what I

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[drodgyn]

I'm guessing that upwards of 90% of those girlie-girls you mention are that way because they lack the brains and courage to be anything else. You are a truly awesome person. You have always been there for me when I needed a friend, and I will forever appreciate that. You are far and away better than the carbon copy girls running about being rather pretentious. This is just my opinion, though, so take it however you will, but I think your worrying is unwarranted.

[riviel_lanora]

just be who you are, don't try to fit into any molds of what you think you should be. i know we haven't talked in a long time, but the last couple years i've finally got it figured out that changing to fit the "norm" just isn't healthy (lol) for me.

just be yourself. if people can't accept it then that's their loss, not yours. besides, being one of the guys isn't so bad. in my experience with that, it's made me less intimidating to some guys as a female haha :)

you'll figure it out. best of luck!