My problem and he said

[imasailorgirl]

I figured out what's been bothering me

Comments

[ornjkitty]

Yeah, that would have me pretty freaked out, too. I think that's kind of how I've been feeling about my own situation, too. I was a basket case on Sunday, and even though he kept telling me "I'm coming BACK!" there's part of me that wonders why he would want to. I still feel like this is a one-night stand, and there's nothing really concrete that I can hold on to to say that it isn't (Well, beyond the fact of how careful he has been even before STARTING anything to be sure it will all work out. ...) I mean, the first time he met we, we went caving (at a TOURIST cave, not one of those raw holes in the dirt without the fancy lighting and the guiderails and whatnot!) and I had a full-out panic attack from pretty much the time my shoes hit the ground. And at every turn, he has probably seen me at my very worst ever, and he's STILL talking to me? I'm trying so hard not to be a clingy, emotional basket-case, knowing that is the sure-fire way to chase him off, but ... that's kind of where I'm at right now! LOL

[ravenarena]

Yea!!! Congrats!! Oh I forgot to tell you Mel proposed to me after 3 months of dating. Both of us can understand the situation I moved up to DE to live with Mel. She just got out of a very bad marriage when we meet. So both of us were a little "gun" shy but we have made it through 5 years as of Labor Day weekend. We wish you the best of luck.

[kcalohagirl]

Hugs! Best of luck!