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Jun 29, 2005 20:20

Hi Im new here. I have had 2 abortions both with the same person. the first when I was 15 and the second at 17 when he raped me when he couldnt deal with me dumping him. the second i never think about at all. I had just met hubbie and we were planning to get married and I want his baby. I now have 2 lovely children and we are very happy. Today i ( Read more... )

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blakesmom June 29 2005, 20:00:02 UTC
you are always welcome to post for support here....

I am a mother of a near two year old, if it wasn't for my abortion, I'd be 8 months pregnant right now... being a heavy woman already... there's no way i could have handled my son being pregnant, especially since i found out i was pregnant shortly after his dad left us...

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levityinbrevity June 30 2005, 02:58:59 UTC
hey were both memmbers of badparent..

I think there are a few women here taht have kids. and have had abortions...

I had 2 one when I was 18 with a abusive man and still wasnt finished with high school that baby would be umm... 5 or 6 I think. I had the other when I was 19 and was on BC and EC was livng with my father and with a man that couldnt aford to pay his ex-wife child soport let alone help me raise a child.. that baby would be 4 I think

Now i have a nearly 2 year old with my husband and one baby on the way.. I will never regret what i idd but it doesnt mean I will forget the babys I dont have. Anti-choicers dont relise how big a deal doing this is I mean we arent baby hateing sluts we wanted childeren but life didnt want us to have them. we made the choice of waht was best for us and we should never regret that.

good luck with the little one!

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levityinbrevity June 30 2005, 03:02:28 UTC
not to say that any woman is a baby hateing slut.. man I hoope it didnt sound that way. its just how they portay us pro-choicers. ok shut up now Andrea!

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azaz_al June 30 2005, 11:23:09 UTC
Hey there,
Like others have said - it isn't uncommon at all to go on to have children after an abortion. I did it. Actually, if I hadn't had the abortion, I probably would never have had my son, because my life would have led me in a different direction. That is weird to think about.

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You lonelydolly July 1 2005, 12:58:09 UTC
did a great job at doing what was best for you and your future family! You should be proud of the choices you have made, sounds like you are a happy and smart woman! :)
Kim

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eyelid July 6 2005, 13:35:59 UTC
Good for you for leaving that jerk :) I'm glad you're with someone better now. I too had an abortion and now I have a 14 month old child.

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