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[sjc80]

I had an abortion in March of this year. I am in a committed relationship and do want to have children with the man. When I found out I was pregnant, I was devastated. Both of us are still in school and having a baby would have prevented me from finishing school (a bunch of reasons). We decided that it was not the right time for us to have this

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[vane]

That would have been a very difficult experience, but I'm sure you are a stronger person for having got through it.

*hugs*

[kingyummy]

I found myself in a similar situation re unexpected pregnancy and still in school.

I am so glad that you're happy with the decision that you made. I still feel relieved on a daily basis that I was allowed to make my own decisions about my pregnancies - good luck for the future!!

Thank you

[altheebee]

I'm reading your entry with tears in my eyes. I feel the same way about my boyfriend, I love him more than words can say. We've been together for 9 months (ironic) and dream about getting married and having babies. We're even moving in together next May. I'm going to school when I can (I work full-time and support myself) and I have a great job. But he's still in school full-time. We tried to work it out so we could have the baby, but nothing made sense. I detest the idea of putting my child in daycare, and that would be our only option. I have a lot of doubts (the abortion is next tuesday) and reading your entry helps me see that we can get past this and have everything we want.

Congratulations on your engagement!