I am going to put the following discussion behind a cut as it is sexual in nature.
Ok, I love sex as much as the next person, but there is something I do not understand. Why is it whenever you see women on television etc they always want sex to last like 3 hours? People like Sting brag that through tantric techniques they can have sex for hours at a time. Am I the only person that gets tired after 30 minutes or so? I will admit I am rather vigorous when it comes to movement during sex; I mean I don't understand women that just lay there like a dead fish. What's the fun in that? But after I have my orgasm (or two) I am tired and I want it to end! I am not saying I want sex to last 2 minutes, but 15-30 minutes is fine with me. All night lovin' is not my idea of a fun time. I know I cannot be alone because when I was a teenager I had this friend, Jessica, and she actually asked her boyfriend, "Are you done yet?" in a very annoyed tone, suggesting that he finish up quickly. Not to be too graphic but if it goes on long enough I start to get a little raw...Now, having sex once, finishing, cuddling for awhile, having some foreplay and starting again is fine by me, but I need a little rest! In fact I think the foreplay is the most important part, I am lucky in that my husband seems to agree with me. I suppose one reason I can think of taht women might like sex to last loger is it takes them a long time to have an orgasm...
Am I the only one out there that feels this way?
I think I am going to add a little poll:
Poll Does Sex really need to last hours to be enjoyable? Can't wait to see the results!
Imperia