2009

[indianeyes]

I am really quite scared that 2009 is going to be a bad year. It's already started out badly. For instance, I lost my "wonderful, fabulous, perfect, love love love going to work in the morning" position at work. I made a lateral move, so there was no pay decrease or different hours but I was doing something that I truly loved and then, thanks to

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[tickly_girl]

Wow, that's a lot for any one's plate. Kudo's to you for handling it all thus far.

And for what it's worth, I think he's being really unreasonable not even talking to you about the work problem.

I can see why you feel like it's just too much, and not how a relationship is supposed to be.

I hope 2009 starts looking up for you. Take care of yourself.

*hugs*

[soakingup]

Oh sister.
I'm glad you posted this.

Reading all of this obviously infuriates me. I love you more than I love pretty much anything in this world....and I just don't like this. Everyone has shitty aspects of their person. You do, I do, Mike does. But to continue behaving in a manner which compromises someone else's daily life is just not fair. Mike is NOT BEING FAIR. You need to take care of YOU now.

2009 is going to be sooooo awesome for you. I can feel it. I'm sorry about what happened at work. I really am. I know you loved that position, but for some divine reason, it just happened, right?

You need to REALLY think about what you want in life and make it happen in 2009. I know that sounds huge, but whatever you REALLY want, get it. You know I back you up no matter what you do. You're my sister and everything you do, to me, is good. MAKE 2009 a good year. Do what you need to do to do that and let me know if I can help. You know mom backs you up, too. I love you bunches.

[where_i_belong9]

You must be ONE really tough, resilient, strong, persistent kind of woman to be able to handle things this long! I know when terrible things happen to me, I feel lost and hurt and don't know what to do. Thats when I turn to my strength. I can see you have a lot of that. Or you wouldn't have put up with half the things you already do.

Hang in there... 2009 will get better. It has to.