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indieking

ok so

Dec 27, 2006 03:15

I live with my dad, for those of you that don't know. I have also been sneaking around smoking cigarettes because "I quit." Now, I don't smoke all the time, mind you, but there is the occasional moment when, in a fit of weakness, I need a cigarette. All of this is exposition to what I'm gonna type ( Read more... )

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shadowblind December 27 2006, 13:58:17 UTC

Wow, that was really deep. I had one of those when I living with my mom in Harvey. I think I reacted a lot worse, but I'm glad that you had your epiphany. And I think you have nothing to hide.

Much love.

well indieking December 28 2006, 07:14:25 UTC

you'd be surprised. HOWEVER, I've never killed anyone, so that's a plus!

Re: well shadowblind December 28 2006, 15:38:09 UTC

Very much a plus. Murder is indeed a bad habit... just don't hide it.

christinedaae December 27 2006, 17:44:29 UTC

I think that that's a really good point, and a really good idea! Most people (including me) can't even face their bad points, let alone admit to others what they are. I think that you have a good idea going!! You're going to have to help me out with it, hehe...

easy indieking December 28 2006, 07:16:20 UTC

you're madly in love with me. That's a start.

Re: easy christinedaae December 28 2006, 16:36:05 UTC

changing_heaven December 27 2006, 20:37:08 UTC

Remembering when you told me this story on the phone, and now re-reading it, it is still very inspiring and moving. I am very impressed you came to such an enormous realization about yourself and the world through such a small observation. It's true that a lot of us keep from others those things that seem to demean our worth. Given, you don't want everyone to see your flaws, but I think once trust is gained and a deep relationship is achieved, there is a sense of comfort in that you know the other won't leave once you've revealed your 'full' self to them. Other times people just cover up completely, and even in times of crisis, continue to put up a false front that most times, is easy to see through. (Though, this can sometimes be others' true personalities as well). I think, overall, it is important to be honest and open with those that you trust. If people discard you because of who you are, wholly, than it truly isn't worth your time of day to try to be something other than what you are ( ... )