Is this an INFJ thing?
*sigh* Relationships..
I am not sure if this has anything to do with personality, and if so, if it relates to the INFJ, but I have noticed I have a very specific pattern in my relationship with my boyfriend. It seems that he does something that I do not like and I get very emotional. I blow it out of proportion. I work myself up in a tizzy over something that is not important. We fight about it. Then I gradually fade into a, 'No, it's all my fault. I'm a bad person. You shouldn't be with me because I am too emotional and get too upset.' Then I suddenly "wake up" and realize that I am being stupid! My emotions completely vanish and I'm back to normal, content and happy me. (Until the next little thing makes me blow up)
Most of the time, we're a happy, good couple. It is only occasionally that I just, out of nowhere, freak out in an upset rage. Mebbe I just have relationship-problems. I don't know. Is this normal? I don't know where else to turn on this. :D
[Edit]:A Little More Info: He is an ISTJ. He just "rides out" my emotional patches.. He is very patient and yes, his feathers do get ruffled, too, but not often. To him, our relationship and his love for me is just set in stone. It just is. He's a very loving guy, too. He's always aware of how I'm feeling and is quick to tell me he loves me.
I am not sure if this has anything to do with personality, and if so, if it relates to the INFJ, but I have noticed I have a very specific pattern in my relationship with my boyfriend. It seems that he does something that I do not like and I get very emotional. I blow it out of proportion. I work myself up in a tizzy over something that is not important. We fight about it. Then I gradually fade into a, 'No, it's all my fault. I'm a bad person. You shouldn't be with me because I am too emotional and get too upset.' Then I suddenly "wake up" and realize that I am being stupid! My emotions completely vanish and I'm back to normal, content and happy me. (Until the next little thing makes me blow up)
Most of the time, we're a happy, good couple. It is only occasionally that I just, out of nowhere, freak out in an upset rage. Mebbe I just have relationship-problems. I don't know. Is this normal? I don't know where else to turn on this. :D
[Edit]:A Little More Info: He is an ISTJ. He just "rides out" my emotional patches.. He is very patient and yes, his feathers do get ruffled, too, but not often. To him, our relationship and his love for me is just set in stone. It just is. He's a very loving guy, too. He's always aware of how I'm feeling and is quick to tell me he loves me.