I was molested by some neighborhood boys when I was 5.. brothers.. and because of the way my family reacted to it I've always thought that if a guy liked me for any reason there was somethign wrogn with them. Most likely explains the relationships I've had.
Get the counselling.
anonymous
December 1 2004, 09:28:23 UTC
I'm gonna say this in a way that's probably more simple than you think it is, but...
If you've got a problem and there's someone out there trained to aid you with that problem, let them. If they can't, let THEM say it. Don't talk yourself out of your own game.
Hell, *I've* gone to counselling for shit that's happened to OTHER PEOPLE. I could've NOT gone because all I could tell them was, "I wish this hadn't happened." In the end, I'm VERY glad I went.
Holla if you wanna chat offline about it a little or a lot. I know how to listen without commenting or how to give you a frickin' earful - depending on what you're comfortable sharing.
One more thing. Get that "self-pity" bullshit out of your head. You feel what you feel. If you don't want to share that HERE, that's cool. I think you need to share it SOMEWHERE, though.
Care about yourself as much as you care about everybody else.
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If you've got a problem and there's someone out there trained to aid you with that problem, let them. If they can't, let THEM say it. Don't talk yourself out of your own game.
Hell, *I've* gone to counselling for shit that's happened to OTHER PEOPLE. I could've NOT gone because all I could tell them was, "I wish this hadn't happened." In the end, I'm VERY glad I went.
Holla if you wanna chat offline about it a little or a lot. I know how to listen without commenting or how to give you a frickin' earful - depending on what you're comfortable sharing.
One more thing. Get that "self-pity" bullshit out of your head. You feel what you feel. If you don't want to share that HERE, that's cool. I think you need to share it SOMEWHERE, though.
Care about yourself as much as you care about everybody else.
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