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[inkandbullets]

[mood|dark ships in dublin]
[music|new found glory - don't let this be the end

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[testing_my_will]

to me, "dating" is the stage right before becoming official. Like, you know you like each other, but it hasn't crossed the point of "you are my boy/girlfriend".

The stage of "dating" therefore usually lasts anywhere from days up to a few months depending on the pace of the relationship. it usually signifies exclusiveness; although, it is ok if it is not entirely exclusive on the follow terms and conditions:
-no words such as "significant other" "boy/girlfriend" "anniversary" are used in reference to any person in your life
-no prolonged family time with your date-ee (your family or vice versa) lol
-physical relations do not extend beyond "just kissing" (esp if one is confused about the state of the relationship)

so basically...that guy is a d-bag.

[red_firetruck]

yes yes. what she said.

[inkandbullets]

that's what i think too. like i've had a guy ask me once if it was ok if he was "dating" this girl and then wanting to see another one, and i was like umm...it really depends on how exclusive the relationship is, and if the other girl views it the same way.

i think this guy is a douche because how dare he celebrate a "one year" and then try to get with other girls. unless they're "friends with benefits" which i highly doubt is the case.

and yes, personally i view dating as exclusive after a certain timepoint and only if both parties feel the same way. this guy is just wasting her time. i hope she dumps him

[finnish_cracker]

hmm agree w above person on the dating question.
either he's an ass or they are using each other as filler while looking for other people...

[inkandbullets]

i feel like he's using her. i mean, i personally wouldn't celebrate a one year with someone if it's not an exclusive relationship. it's weird.

[testing_my_will]

ps, how was the terminator?

[inkandbullets]

i really like it, but i mean i don't follow the terminator series so i can't tell you from a series viewpoint, but action wise, it's pretty decent. actually i think this has more of a story plot than action lmao

[definexjoy]

Lol I had that issue too when I was searching for cars, I'd get stick. I did not want stick haha. I think on auto trader you can do an advanced search and there is an option for automatic.
Wow, trains are just having mad issues these days.
A lot of people say/think dating is literally going out on dates/the start of a relationship. If the guy has been with the girl for one year, that is a relationship not just dating. So he is a douche.
o: I must see said skirt and dress.

[inkandbullets]

yeah when i think dating i think "beginning/start" but for a year?? no way.

i want to punch him so bad. lol ok when i wear em, maybe i'll take pics, or i can wear em sometime when we go out or something

[artists_rifles]

Yeah, that's a douche move right there. No one should be "only dating" for a whole fucking year. Douche-bag. Douche-nozzle, closer to the source.

Also you should learn to drive stick. Then you can drift and be SO AZN

[inkandbullets]

lmaooo i've never heard douchenozzle.

and i'm not so sure i want to learn stick lol. i feel like i'd crash