tonight i came home from class

[innocenteexpres]

and, thinking i had an hour and a half until tom comes home, smoked a little, turned up some tunes, and started getting shit done. when he walked in the door fifteen minutes later, i was delighted--he trumps hanging out alone, almost every time--but he was surprised to me (we can't keep each other's schedules straight to save our lives) and, i

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[christophrawr]

Are you in Cali? I too just moved to Seattle to be with the lady friend. But New York has my heart. Though I want Gawker to kill the Hipster Grifter story already. For sho'. *nod*

[innocenteexpres]

i am indeed, and welcome to the west coast! new york has mine as well, make no mistake. it'll be there when we return, though.

[nidea]

I *totally* have had that feeling about "ah this hour is mine" and getting flustered/annoyed when the beloved one shows up! Whereas if I'd thought he was going to be home and then was an hour "late" I'd be even more annoyed. :D

People are weird that way... Glad it turned out well for you; I think actually giving each other space in that situation is the best thing.

And I need a radio in the kitchen.

[innocenteexpres]

i love when you tell me about your relationship! i'm glad you've experienced that, too, and i think learning to create space or allow space is crucial. it was a neat little lesson, honestly.

me too! i just have an app on my iPhone that plays public radio (which is fantastic, make no mistake) but i miss my old radio that played throughout the apartment. cooking while listening to NPR is my favorite.

[isnolonger]

taking ownership of your feelings is really hard, so way to go for deciding how you wanted to feel and then doing it. it's something i have really been trying to get a grip on lately so lots of respect and love <3

[innocenteexpres]

aw, thanks, lady! i'm not saying i've got it down, but it's a good start. in other news, i miss you!