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Jul 26, 2004 22:18

i love people. and then i hate them. i'm kind of upset now, but i wanted to update and say....EXACTLY THREE WEEKS LEFT UNTIL I'M BACK IN PULLMAN!!!! i'm really excited to be back and to see everyone and to go swing dancing ( Read more... )

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madmathman03 July 26 2004, 22:36:19 UTC

be honest, just start a conversation and say you like him. Its so simple!

zars01 July 27 2004, 01:41:29 UTC

Agreed - that's probably the easiest way.
Say you try something less direct and he doesn't respond ... it may be he just doesn't feel the same way, but you can't be sure ... so you keep trying ...
Could be a disaster. Better to get the whole thing done and over with in seconds flat.

Hey! yoon_jae_mi July 27 2004, 12:41:03 UTC

Am~

Just be yourself you a beautiful person. . .chances he's been just a little worried about you from you intrigues of injuries! LOL just tell him the truth otherwise you wonder about it for the next year. . .I love you and really miss talking to you.

Musically yours in Christ,

Panda

jonsonite July 28 2004, 00:43:57 UTC

I don't know about this whole "just tell him you like him" thing. How well do you know this guy at this point? I would say if you like him enough that you would like to be friends anyway, exchange contact info and get to know each other slowly once you both get back to Pullman-Moscow.

spiralingsnails July 28 2004, 12:46:49 UTC

I pretty much vote with Jon. Also, try to find out if there are any hobbies/activities you have in common that you might enjoy doing together. Give it time, keep it casual. Patience is hard, but it usually pays off in the end. If you two wouldn't work out, then hopefully you will be able to realize it before the relationship has gone beyond friendship. If you two really are a good match, he'll realize it eventually, and then you can go from there.

Boy Stuff peach_senator July 29 2004, 19:54:59 UTC

I am going to go with Jon and Beth on this one. These two things first: 1.)This whole wondering forever thing? Yeah...it doesn't really happen. I've "missed" several opportunities with sundry guys, but I don't sit around and agonize over if things could have worked out between us. Obviously, if the one of those guys I did lose was "the one" he would turn up in my life again because God wouldn't let him get away that easily, or He will get us back together again. 2.) Telling a guy what you really think can sometimes scare them off. You really don't want this guy creeped out for the rest of the summer, because three weeks of him avoiding you won't make for a fun end to your camp. (Remember Aaron and prom night? He cold-shouldered me for a couple months afterward ( ... )

enunemi July 31 2004, 08:18:14 UTC

Why didn't I see this post earlier? Here is another two cents for you however it looks like I've got the same pennies as everyone else so I'll add this. Even though right now your short term goal is getting into a relationship it is not the end all. Things do not get any less confusing most of the time the opposite happens. To counteract this put your faith in God if your relationship is ment to be then he'll guide it in the best way possible. It is by no means easy sometimes but God knows what he's doing. Just remember patience is a virtue so be virtuous.