Some guys can be really thick when it comes to flirting. but I know what you mean. I totally felt that way about a guy. We were great friends for like 2 years. I liked him SOOO much (maybe even loved), but I was so afraid to tell him. I kept waiting, afraid that I would scare him off. Eventually, he got another girlfriend, and he is still with her.
and the sucky thing is...I think he really liked me at one point... and now, I'm always wondering what would've happened if I had just told him.
The ironic thing is, we aren't really friends anymore. I have stopped talking to him because it hurts too much. It isn't good for me to pine when he is taken. argh...but every few days I still think of him with an emptiness in my gut.
Anyway, all I'm saying is I wish I had gone for it. Just taken a little step. so...there is my two cents if you want it.
Im sure we have had conversations on this in the past. I know not what more i can say to help the matter.
But...
What does the guy provide that you would move to him for?
I dunno if you told me this, but the feelings of longing for an individual you just met may just be the empiness inside yearning to fill the void that is omni present in life without a partner. We both know that pain...
I worry that if you in fact are just feeling that pain and wanting to fill if you will cause more hurt later...
But I also worry that if you dont move on love that it too will hurt later...
you have friends here to help and support you, you have this guy over there to possible be there for you more than your friends.
im not big on the concept at times, but use your head for a little bit and quite your heart...see what the two say...
Small steps hun, small steps. It's unfortunate to see people who miss out on love (my condolences go to your friend who commented first), but if nothing else, an attempt should be made.
It can be as easy as saying "Hi, I think we need to talk, and I think I'm attracted to you." I'm sure it will come out in a very different way, but I think you should make the effort.
Besides, you know a lot about my situation than most people do, and even though I've been through a lot, I still don't want to miss my chance to be happy again. I've decided to wait a little bit, but if I meet someone who wants to show me that I'm what they want, then why shouldn't I take the opportunity?
You have my best wishes in whichever path you take dear.
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and the sucky thing is...I think he really liked me at one point... and now, I'm always wondering what would've happened if I had just told him.
The ironic thing is, we aren't really friends anymore. I have stopped talking to him because it hurts too much. It isn't good for me to pine when he is taken. argh...but every few days I still think of him with an emptiness in my gut.
Anyway, all I'm saying is I wish I had gone for it. Just taken a little step. so...there is my two cents if you want it.
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But...
What does the guy provide that you would move to him for?
I dunno if you told me this, but the feelings of longing for an individual you just met may just be the empiness inside yearning to fill the void that is omni present in life without a partner. We both know that pain...
I worry that if you in fact are just feeling that pain and wanting to fill if you will cause more hurt later...
But I also worry that if you dont move on love that it too will hurt later...
you have friends here to help and support you, you have this guy over there to possible be there for you more than your friends.
im not big on the concept at times, but use your head for a little bit and quite your heart...see what the two say...
P.S. ICE CREAME!
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It can be as easy as saying "Hi, I think we need to talk, and I think I'm attracted to you." I'm sure it will come out in a very different way, but I think you should make the effort.
Besides, you know a lot about my situation than most people do, and even though I've been through a lot, I still don't want to miss my chance to be happy again. I've decided to wait a little bit, but if I meet someone who wants to show me that I'm what they want, then why shouldn't I take the opportunity?
You have my best wishes in whichever path you take dear.
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