Comments | itsumademo_ai: your presence still lingers here and it won't leave me alone

itsumademo_ai

your presence still lingers here and it won't leave me alone

Dec 15, 2004 18:33

i'm starting to get used to feeling alone in a room of friends ( Read more... )

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zeggy23 December 16 2004, 01:37:42 UTC

it's possible that you've changed but not for the worse, everyone changes in uni. you may just think you are the same way you used to be and aren't any more. it's not a bad thing.

zeggy23 December 16 2004, 01:38:15 UTC

oh and i'd come visit you but i now have the flu and am under house arrest seeing as i've already deferred an exam.

Roommates are fun! kralingen December 16 2004, 09:22:16 UTC

I'll go out with you for coffee (but I'll have hot chocolate) when I'm in Ottawa. I already said (when we were talking on the phone, which was for you as I called soely to talk to you) I wanted to spend more time with you Lindsay. I'll go farther than Zeggy there and say I'm sure have changed - that what people do. Change isn't a bad thing and one shouldn't be afraid of it or try to stop it. Enjoy the journey and make the best of where you are. Yes, living with people can sometimes make them seem like all they are is a pile of faults. (I remeber living with someone who would ALWAYS leave his dishes in the sink and who even left his pants in the living room for over a month! *wink wink*. But you can't let trivial things liek that, not matter how irritating, affect your friendship. Its all in how you choose to think about it. I think I dealt with it by seeing two separate reltionships between me and each of them roommates - one as a roomate, which is when I would make annoying remarks like "your pants are still in the living ( ... )

Re: Roommates are fun! itsumademo_ai December 16 2004, 13:41:48 UTC

but is missing the way things used to be, or not liking the way things have changed, really such a bad thing???

Re: Roommates are fun! zeggy23 December 16 2004, 23:11:21 UTC

no man. change sucks i hate change. but after a while it's not so bad. missing things the way they were is totally normal. but it isn't going to make them go back that way.

yellowmonkeys December 16 2004, 09:43:52 UTC

dude i leave you comments all the time. read my journal i just posted abotu how much i missed you. i know how tough it is when peoiple say your too far away to come visit. everyone chages over uni and you know why? cuz we are adults. scary thought i know. trust me my life is pretty boring most of what happens is on the journal. no worries love i'd go to your weddigns and you better come to mine.
Miss and Love ya
Vixs

itsumademo_ai December 16 2004, 13:41:16 UTC

the thing is, i don't know if i'll have time to see you guys over the holidays at all...i have one day (and possibly a half a day as well) where i am not booked for anything. (check lj for updates) and i want to see so many people.

:(