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[itz_tha_brat]

He left. Today. It's extreamly hard right now for me,but I know I will get throught it, once this grieving period is over. SUCKS big time. But I know it is for the best. It'll take some time to get used to being "alone" again, but I'll get through. Been through these heart-aches too many times, know what it's all about. Give it a week. A week of

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[coco_puffin]

While indeed that DOES suck, from talking to you, I think it's actually a good thing. I always prefer to KNOW, rather than to exist in some limbo of "what if" and "when?". I have been single for over a year now, and although it can be lonely, I think that it affords you a genuine chance to take care of yourself and value yourself... build your self-esteem. If a man can't give you what you need, there's no point in keeping him around (I know you already know that). You're not living in denial... and that's something to be proud of. Good for you for giving him the hard line and asking him to stand up and be a man. He will remember that in the future, wherever he ends up and hopefully, take a lesson from it. You can't slack off in a relationship where your support is needed. And that is EVERY relationship. The transition from "all about me" to "all about us" is difficult for a lot of people. Sometimes they only get as far as "it's mostly about me, and sometimes about you". And it's not good enough. It can't be. But (says the

[coco_puffin]

Thanks so much for the reply. It means alot. :) I'm slowly recovering, however it is effecting much harder then I thought it would. i.e. crying wise. But I will get over it, it'll get easier as the days pass and as I get used to truly being "alone" again.
I also think/know I am better off without...but just mourning the loss at the moment I sappose. My emotions have me completly confused at the moment.