Hm..Pt. 2

[iva_enyo]

Self mutilation as in cutting parts of my skin off, maybe even the excess fat. Maybe then Gabriel will finally notice me and actually compliment me. Maybe then he will realize what his obsession is doing to me. Maybe if I cut off the scars on my back from acne, he will find me prettier? Maybe if I stop eating and become thin, he'll love me more

Comments

[errantwild]

None of the things you propose are physiologically possible -- cutting your thighs would just result in a lot of bleeding and scars, not any reduction in fat. Self-mutilation is not an answer.

The root issue is, you want Gabriel to know how you feel? Tell him. If he ignores you, then, that's that, and you need to get him to a marriage counselor or something.

[link_daggerclaw]

This is the point where I should swim over there and strangle you, myself. Never ever self-mutliate yourself, or even think of suicide. I mean if Gabriel will not notice you, then there is something wrong with him, not you. You seek help from a marriage counselor, or if everything is that bad, break up with him. I mean, I've been where you are, and trust me, cutting yourself, or killing yourself solves NOTHING. There are other people out there that think you are beautiful, hell I am one of them. I wish I was lucky enough to have a woman like you by my side. But, Iva, DO not, and I mean DO NOT ever think about self mutilation or suicide. Nothing comes from it.

I get off my soapbox now.

[djali_d]

I love ya babe. *hug*

[irial]

No one is worth mutilating/killing yourself over. As others have already mentioned, seek help from a counselor. You need to talk to someone about this and fast. :/ *hugs tight*

[jonmaximal]

Self mutilation is not so much as wanting attention, although that is part of it. It also seems to be be caused by a poor self esteem and self image. If you are cutting yourself because you want attention, it may not be the way to go.

If you want to talk, I am always open. It may help.