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Mar 22, 2007 10:55

Tom and I are still trying to figure out this whole wedding ordeal. We have three options right now ( Read more... )

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magdalene156 March 22 2007, 18:07:24 UTC

Ya know, maybe if you haggled with CS and made up some elaborate story you could get at least some of your deposit back... It might work, it can't hurt!
I think no matter what you do it will be wonderful, and gorgeous, and magical.

Mmmmmm cake!

susiehomemaker March 22 2007, 18:46:52 UTC

lol, well, your whole family consists of 8-12 people total (and thats counting lisa and cindy!) & i promise we wont bring guests! :p

and im a HUGE fan of reno. ;p hell, i bet brandon would even come for that one!

societysedso March 22 2007, 23:20:38 UTC

I vote for option L. For purely selfish reasons :P

ivymae March 23 2007, 18:43:32 UTC

Dude, i am getting on a plane.

Fuckin A. You and R had the right idea. I am so over this whole wedding shit.

douxpluie March 23 2007, 09:21:27 UTC

Yay for cake. That always makes things better :-)

get married at the new sonic. i've still never been there. twilite_ang March 23 2007, 17:43:13 UTC

sheeeeeesh.
all i have to say is i'm glad this is not MY wedding, and while you may be a bridesmaid in my wedding, I don't know that I'll leave too much of the planning up to you. ;D

my two cents that you might not appreciate as much:
you DESERVE to have a pretty pretty princess wedding if that's what you want. I know it's NOT the bulk of what you want... but I think, personally, as a super-unmarried-probably-single-forever-girl, that it's ok for the wedding to be ridiculous when it comes to favors and food and the deeeeetails. why? because you WILL only do this once. EVER. in your whole life. And you deserve for it to be HOWEVER the hell you want. covered in pink roses would be fine! in the streets of spokane would be fine, if that's what you want! but just know that no one will think you're selfish or silly or dumb or any of that if you decide you want to feel like a princess on your wedding day. it's YOUR day. YOU and TOM ONLY. That's IT. That's ALL that should matter that day. So if you want to be a princess, be one, and do it ( ... )

Re: get married at the new sonic. i've still never been there. ivymae March 23 2007, 18:42:44 UTC

See, that is what kills me. I DON"T want the big fancy princess thing, but I have been told by just about everyone that that is what i SHOULD want. Hell, Tom and I said for years that we didn't even want a wedding, but eventually caved and said that we would do it.

Maybe Tom and I will just go to lake Coeur d'Alene this weekend and do it, and then send out pictures. Except we are busy this weekend - maybe next.

Re: get married at the new sonic. i've still never been there. twilite_ang March 23 2007, 19:11:07 UTC

Well, no one should be making you feel like you do or don't have to have it any certain way. I honestly can't imagine you having a big princessy wedding, but if that's what you wanted that's what we'd do! I wish I could just say "relax!" and it would all come together exactly how you want it. Sounds like you and Tom just need to really think about it and follow your hearts. You two are making this commitment for each other, not any one else, and anyone who doesn't see it that way is in the wrong. All I can say is that I can't wait for the day that we get to celebrate YOUR FAMILY, however you choose to do it. AND, if you ran away and did it all before anyone even knew and then we just got to have a big party i don't think anyone would or should be disappointed. Just don't do anything rash just to avoid the stress... spend some time in thought and prayer and conversation about it with each other and inevitably you will come to the best decision. :D ( ... )

Re: get married at the new sonic. i've still never been there. twilite_ang March 23 2007, 19:13:03 UTC

why am i anonymous. that's dumb.

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