Stupid Fucking Drama

[iwnt2queedabean]

So as many of you know, at my graduation party on of my closest friends decided they would start drama. Apparently I have given my friends the wrong idea about Mike. I have complained about a couple of things that aren't even a big deal, such as him working out all the time. Obviously its frustrating because I would rather spend that time with

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[kaygigi]

I'm really sorry about the drama. I tried to withdraw myself when I realized it was just going to shit. I'm sorry if I contributed in anyway to it.
Johanna should have spoken her mind to you, not Mike. I think what she needs to apologize for isn't her opinion, just saying it in a manner that was, well, dramatic. I also think that Mike became determined to show that he was a good guy, though; seems like after the drama he became determined to get to NYC afterall.
She said at Beth's house afterwards that she just wants you to be happy and is glad you're not dating Jordan. If she's not being totally rational right now, give her a bit of leeway. I feel for just about everyone involved because of my own situation, from the friend intervening to not feeling rational, etc, so I hope that your situation works better than mine. It seems like it will.

[iwnt2queedabean]

I'm not mad at her for having that opinion. I just can't believe she doesn't regret telling Mike off like that. It was so inappropriate. Don't worry you didn't contribute to the drama at all. I don't blame you for leaving. I'm just upset that she pretty much caused all my friends to leave my party. I don't want anyone to think that the reason he became determined to go to NY was because of Johanna. We just didn't really discuss alternatives until later because I was pretty upset about it. I was also content to go later in the summer. I think part of the problem is that Dan is completely sticking up for her even though he agrees with me that she shouldn't have done it like that. This stems from the fact that he thinks he is now falling in love with her. Its not like he has told her she was wrong to do that and that pisses me off. I have no problems with him being there for her, but if she did something wrong he has an obligation to her and me as friend to make sure she knows it. He isn't being honest with her about what he

[kaygigi]

I might call later, but I'm doing alright. It's the first time in a long time you've been happy in a relationship; what is there not to support?

I still want to visit Ohio. Perhaps with butt loads of Claritan in tow, but I'll still visit. Drama aside...

Plus Beth lives a block away from Mike :D

[amyannosu]

I didn't know all that happened after I left! I'm sorry that had to happen at your party. You're right, she should have brought it up to you in private if it concerned her that much. It's really not her business anyway, but the timing couldn't have been worse, either.

[iwnt2queedabean]

For real girl.

[grantnet10]

Sometimes friends try to help and what they end up doing is just causing more harm. Similar to the Kate and Demarcos issue.

[iwnt2queedabean]

I know. Why is it that people are so stupid and don't know when to stay out of other peoples business. Its not like I ever went up to Nick and told him that he was being an asshole. I always just said something straight to her if I felt something needed to be said.

[profbunsnhunydo]

Well I say no matter whether you like the person who your friend is dating or whatever its not your buisness as long as the person is happy and the relationship is good I am happy for you everyone elses oppinions dont matter.

[iwnt2queedabean]

I'm glad you're happy for me. I hope next time we come to NY we all get to spend more time together.