Ha! I was going to answer this Q with my "ex-husband", cause he's definately the bully in my life, even tho he's not been my husband for over 10 years.
I hope the fact that your bf is now a bully tells you something. Like...move on! And I hope you find someone who doesn't bully you.
People shouldn't treat other people like crap.

Best of luck to you!
:)