This city that you built can BURN....

[j2theosie]

As a parent, you want the best for your children. It doesn't matter how old your children are. The fact of the matter is that you are raising your kids to the best of your knowledge and ability. Maybe, that is my opinion

Comments

[lphybrid]

You have been so amazingly strong throughout this and have learned so much. Please don't ever forget that people love you and care about you. I've found that when things are going as God planned, everything happens relatively quickly and things just feel right. When we're working towards what's not meant to be the road is extremely tough and it's harder to see the light. I believe that if this is the right direction for you, you will be able to get the apartment. I also believe that if you step up and control the finances you will not only help yourself, but your family and you will be rewarded somehow.

Love you so much - I still need to reply to your other comment, and I will do so asap.
♥ *tight hugs* And feel free to call me if you ever need to
-jeanne

[privatelyricist]

I send my love, Jeanne's advice, and hope things work out

[__nessa__]

I definitely agree with Jeanne in that you have been incredibly strong through these rough situations given your age. Life is nothing but tests and maybe for whatever reason the obdtacles you have had to go through with your family are just part of the process to get to where you truly belong and will in turn end up being happy.

I'm always here for you if you need anything. <3 you.

[rxqueen11]

It's time for you to move on away from them. I already said everything over the phone. You know we both have almost identical family's when it comes to our mother and brother. Having an apartment in your name changes nothing. Please do not fool yourself into thinking otherwise. What will change is you will become FULLY RESPONSIBLE for the rent and your taking the chance of messing up your credit before you even get it established. She couldn't pay the rent in every other place you've lived. Your history has a bad habit of repeating itself. I hate being so brutally honest, but you know I love you girl and I want what's best for you!

Realizing the time when you must take the step into adulthood sucks and is one of the hardest things you'll do.

xoxoxoxoxoxo

[altoidwhore]

Hey, just wanted to say that I know its a hard time but you're def in my thoughts. Good vibes to you.

And I agree with rxqueen11, sometimes you have to break off unhealthy relationships for the betterment of both people.